Philosphy of decision making
No it’s not that I have said good-bye to blogging. Im just doing the most important job of mothering a child trying my best to help her develop in a human being that pays to the world in a possitive way.
I’m here to blog as the responsiblities are on a break. Hubby’s travelling and Tabeer’s deep asleep next to me. I’m lost in my thoughts and one which I think I should share with all comes from the chapter” lessons” in the “book of life”.
Think well and once you decide on something, stick to it. It will pay off. We think our way knowing how capable we are and the world thinks their way.
I decided to wean my baby till 2 years. And I stuck to it. My mother, my SIL, the social pressure nothing stopped me. I’m a proud mother of a baby who stands out.
I made certain rules about my life 3 years back after my marriage. It’s not that I will never change any of those rules, but yes, some of them stay the same forever. I am truely happy with my life. (Alhmdullilah)
What I want to say is perhaps social pressure makes you make a choice that’s not yours or may be you have an emotional blackmailer- just think wisely. Draw a line in what you really want and think if you can justify your wanting. Stick to it.
One quiet moment in your life, you will cherish the decision.

February 19th, 2010 at 11:59 am
and you mean decisions*…
February 19th, 2010 at 3:10 pm
LOL yes!!!!
February 26th, 2010 at 1:52 am
MashaAllah for the happiness.
I believe you want the best for your child, and that makes decisions crystal clear.
March 18th, 2010 at 10:25 am
the dicision should be as solid as man, depends upon the situation but this theory will wrong when you r in blood relations.
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